Spirit and Soul Protection

Saturday, February 23, 2013

There are times when you may find that being around certain individuals or groups of people leaves you with feelings of discomfort. It may be that spending time with a particular friend feels draining or that dealing with a specific coworker exhausts you.

Being around toxic or angry people is also draining. And you may even find that being surrounded by a crowd of people lowers your energy levels rather than perks you up.

This is not that unusual.

Each of us radiates energy and is capable of being influenced by the energy of other people. It is important to learn how to shield yourself, so you don't unknowingly take on someone else's energy.

While some people know how to instinctively protect themselves from being adversely affected by energy, most of us need to discover and practice the technique that works best. There are a number of ways to avoid being affected by people's energy.

Shielding is one preventative technique you can use. Center yourself and envision being enveloped in a cocoon of loving and protective light. This protective layer should allow you to consciously regulate the energy around you.

The intent to shield oneself is all you need for this technique to work.

You can even create a trigger word to assist you in quickly creating a shield. Say this word each time you create a new shield, until the word and the shield become automatically associated in your mind.

If you run into a person whose energy you find draining, you may want to cleanse your own energy field after your encounter. Sage, cold showers, singing, mineral water baths, spending time in nature, and a simple break to recharge are all ways to accomplish this.

Sharing light with Kimmy. Striving to create a path between the present course of events and a new course; leading to new outcomes.
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Broken People are not POSSESSED

Friday, February 22, 2013

With all the turmoil, and changes that I have experienced in forty years, I have been quite the verbal one with people that continuously blame others and disease for their behavior problems.  It gets old when anyone claims they can't control typing or saying mean things!

You are not possessed, just acting out.

I am broken, who hasn't been broken? Many of us are from time to time!

Whether we are beat up as a child, told we are unworthy, or just attention seekers, our behavior can be "less than ideal".

I relate to broken people well, as my struggles can cause anxiety, and stress!!

When does it end?

Awareness of knowing that I only had control over what I can say, and what I do.

There is no excuse to tell someone, "I was angry, so I said it".. no, you have choices on how you respond.  How do I know that??  Because I have lashed out at others in anger, and in the end, it didn't change the situation, however, because of my reaction, MADE IT WORSE.

How do I know I can control anger? Once I learned not to respond, I realized I was in control all along. That's enlightenment. No Straight Jacket Required!

The first learning for me happened this summer.  Sometimes, no action is needed.  However, that is exactly what I did. And it worked out in the end.

And so it began.  "Non responding", was also a coping skill.

We cannot force someone to love us.  Nor force them to do what we hoped they would do.

I don't feel as broken as I did before. Yet, I still struggle.  I still think my interfering could change the course of events. And yes, sometimes I have to talk it through, if even for a moment, so I realize that doing nothing is an always an option. Even typing this blog is an option.

I am just tired of the "I can't control it" YOU ARE NOT POSSESSED!   BROKEN PEOPLE CAN STILL CHANGE HOW WE RESPOND TO SITUATIONS! 

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Admit the Changes

Wednesday, February 20, 2013

 “We delight in the beauty of the butterfly, but rarely admit the changes it has gone through to achieve that beauty.”

 ― Maya Angelou

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The Captive Dove

Sunday, February 17, 2013

Poor restless dove, I pity thee;

And when I hear thy plaintive moan, I mourn for thy captivity, And in thy woes forget mine own.

To see thee stand prepared to fly, And flap those useless wings of thine, And gaze into the distant sky, Would melt a harder heart than mine.

In vain, in vain! Thou canst not rise:

Thy prison roof confines thee there; Its slender wires delude thine eyes, And quench thy longings with despair.

Oh, thou were made to wander free In sunny mead and shady grove, And, far beyond the rolling sea, In distant climes, at will to rove!

Yet, hadst thou but one gentle mate Thy little drooping heart to cheer, And share with thee thy captive state, Thou couldn't be happy even there.

Yes, even there, if, listening by, One faithful dear companion stood, While gazing on her full bright eye, Thou might forget thy native wood.

But thou, poor solitary dove, Must make, unheard, thy joyless moan; The heart, that Nature formed to love, Must pine, neglected, and alone.

The Captive Dove - By Anne Bronte

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Repost from 2008 about Blame

Saturday, February 16, 2013




Usually there is a tendency to leave things to destiny. When something goes wrong, we blame fate, (oe anyone but ourselves),  for it. Then we feel the situation to be totally out of our control, which
prevents us from taking responsibility for our own life
. And we will not be able to work in any way for bringing about a change and improving the situation.

Instead of blaming fate for whatever is happening, we need to take up responsibility for creating our own fortune for the future.
When we have faith in ourselves
we will take up responsibility for our own life. We will then be able to work at making our each thought beneficial, contributing to our success, making a better future for ourselves.

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Feeling Good



Feeling Good

Birds flying high
You know how I feel
Sun in the sky
You know how I feel
Breeze driftin' on by
You know how I feel
It's a new dawn
It's a new day
It's a new life
For me..
And I'm feeling good

Fish in the sea
You know how I feel
River running free
You know how I feel
Blossom in the trees
You know how I feel
It's a new dawn
It's a new day
It's a new life
For me...
And I'm feeling good

Dragonfly out in the sun
You know what I mean, don't you know
Butterflies all out having fun
You know what I mean
Sleep in peace
When, the this day is done
And this old world
Is a new world
And a bold world
For me...

Stars when you shine
You know how I feel
Scent of the pine
You know how I feel
yeah, freedom is mine
When you know how I feel
It's a new dawn
It's a new day
It's a new life
For me...

yeah, ooh
Oh, ooh...

Oooh, ooh..freeer than you...
Oooh, oooh
Feeling good



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Namaste

Friday, February 15, 2013




Om is the name of that inside me, which is aware of the unity of all things


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Sharing Light with Liz Green

Saturday, February 9, 2013

Inspiring Quotes & Positive Affirmations to Help You Refocus and Create a Happy Life


Inspirational Quotes and Positive Affirmations can really help you to appreciate the power of the mind, when you focus on the following just feel mood lift and your positive energy flow!

All our dreams can come true, if we have the courage to pursue them.
Walt Disney

 
 
The future belongs to those who believe in the beauty of their dreams.
Eleanor Roosevelt

To be happy, make other people happy.
W. Clement Stone

Better a diamond with a flaw than a pebble without.
Confucius

Live with passion!
Tony Robbins

Cherish your visions and your dreams as they are the children of your soul, the blueprints of your ultimate achievements.
Napoleon Hill

Peace begins with a smile.
Mother Teresa

It's not what you look at that matters, it's what you see.
Henry David Thoreau

Miracles come in moments. Be ready and willing.
Wayne Dyer

Every moment is an experience.
Jake Roberts

Be kind whenever possible. It is always possible.
Dalai Lama

Love is always bestowed as a gift - freely, willingly and without expectation. We don't love to be loved; we love to love.
Leo Buscaglia

Let us be grateful to people who make us happy, they are the charming gardeners who make our souls blossom.
Marcel Proust

Trust that little voice in your head that says "Wouldn't it be interesting if..."; And then do it.
Duane Michals

We are what we think. All that we are arises with our thoughts. With our thoughts, we make the world.
Buddha

My favorite inspirational quote which I live my life by is ~ Go confidently in the direction of your dreams! Live the life you've imagined! ~

Live Your Dream Life!

Liz Green
 
~ Inspirational Leader ~ Transformational Mentor ~
CEO & Founder of Live Your Dream Mentoring

LiveYourDreamMentoring.Com

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Change your Choices

Thursday, February 7, 2013

Many people want to change their life but they are not willing to change their choices. 

And this changes nothing.

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Prayer for Peace at Imbolc

Wednesday, February 6, 2013

This is Imbolc, when the ice begins to melt, the earth begins to soften, and the seed begins to stir in the darkness. Let the small seeds of peace also stir within the hearts of those who have been locked in the ice of fear, anger, and hatred.

As the heat of the sun strengthens and warms the earth, so may the heat of love and compassion strengthen the will and spirits of all of us who strive for peace.

I will strive to soften my impatience, so that my compassion can break free and thrive. Peace is a harvest worthy of my patience. I cannot hasten the growth of the crop by tugging on the new shoots. But I can prepare the soil where the seeds of peace may grow.

I can allow love to burn so brightly within me that I glow with the force of it, and allow it to shine so that the fear and anger held within the hearts of others begins to soften and melt.

Peace is not an outward ideal, but an inner truth that lies deep within each heart. May it break forth and flourish. So mote it be.


- Flame RavenHawk


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In honor of today win in court

For the success of today's Court Hearing..



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Sharing a Cry for Help Letter

Written by a young woman scared and tired of the harassment and threats on January 20th, 2013 before the Order of Protection was served:

I have been watching your posts on Twitter. You seem to not be getting this through your head. I have no interest in getting back together with you. I have no interest in working this out with you. This is not something that is negotiable. It is however something that you are going to need to accept.

I will not keep dealing with seeing your angry posts that are pointed in my direction.

Just because it is not direct communication does not mean that it doesn’t count as an attempt to contact me, and I will be placing a restraining order on you so that you will not be able to come anywhere near me.

When you threatened to kill me, and my parents, and said you would beat me until I miscarried. You have not changed and will not change. You are still the bi-polar, depressed, angry person that you were when I was dating you for that short time. In truth, you were a summer mistake that managed to mess up every goal I have had since I was 19. Before I dated you, I was a full time student, working full time, had a great life going for me.

I was broke and broken because my emotions had just been put through hell. I should have left you after you posted that craigslist ad, and before you go off denying that you did this. I have your ad.  I kept it as a reminder. Part of me knew that this was going to end badly and I wanted to make sure that you understand that all of your bull shit saying that you are in love with me is proved false, no one in love does something that stupid.

There is nothing that will ever convince me to let you back into my life for that matter. The more that you continue to post, the more I will monitor, make sure everything that I can use against you in a court of law.

The best decision that you can make at this point is to drop this before this restraining order goes into place, because if I see anything that is directed at me, I will call the police department and have you arrested for violating a restraining order.

Stay the away from me. Stay away from my family. 

(Victim's name withheld)

Readers? What is there to learn here from this cry for help?

People continue patterns.  

In court today the victim saw a little boy, without a voice of his own, get bailed out once again by his enablers.  He lied, under law, that he never threatened her life and the life of her unborn child.  Is this the kind of person she would ever choose to be her daughter's father?  The answer is hell no.

A summer mistake, she calls the abuser.  His words to her, to her friends, on his blogs, on his twitter, facebook, and even his craigslist posts asking for sex with a picture of his boyhood said it all.  I would post the ad here, but I have other plans for his public cravings... more to come on that front.

A win in court is about keeping him far from this family.  She won either way.

This woman has always proven work ethic. For those that don't know what that is; she has gone to school, established a career, and she is working on all her IT certs before her baby gets here early May.

She was raised to be independent, and to be able to support herself and her daughter.

His karma is not what a judge would give him. His karma is his constant suffering, inner turmoil, confusion and addictions.  The people that are still tolerating him, suffer from his lashing out 24/7.   This victim is now out of his life, and that was her choice.   The rest enable and tolerate him, also by choice.

Life is about choices.  My blog has never been about "judging", but more about admitting mistakes, and changing your path.  No matter how far you think you get on a certain path, you can always turn around and make better decisions.

This girl was on the wrong path, and left, on her own, to protect her and her unborn child. Now she is on another path, that only the strong can climb.

The abuser can't follow.  That would be actual work.  And we all know the ones like that.. unless the enablers do it for them, they sit and sulk.

No more tears. Never give up, just keep starting over!

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