Wednesday, December 1, 2010
Enlarge the size of your heart and keep ignoring
People who are jealous, envious, not talk properly, egoistic, impostors, gossipers, behave differently in public, boast, brag, try to show-off their skills, are actually burdened, as they carry all these behavioral patterns in their mind, and their life is wasted in such things only. So, you don't have to get irritated.
You have to enlarge the size of your heart i.e. mind and make sure your behavior is not being affected by theirs. They will continue to be like this till their last breath and enjoy being like that, but what about you? Do you want to keep looking and caring for their attitude or do you want to improve yourself, play your role to the best of your ability and move ahead in life? Choice is yours.
Energy flows wherever attention goes, so even if in the mind you have irritation, you are actually sending them energy and empowering them to behave even more weird. So, just Ignore! That is how they are supposed to be. That is how they are asked by the World Drama to be.
Again, ignoring them does not mean dominate/denigrate or lower their value. They are valuable at their place. Ignoring means just letting them be the way they are, and not disturbing yourself and not getting influenced by their face, expressions, words, energy, vibrations. If someone behaves weird, do you really get thorns pricked to your cheeks? If someone doesn't smile at you or doesn't reply to your messages, do you really have stones thrown at you? Not really. How does it matter? Why should it matter? Others have their own set of thinking patterns, complications, mindsets, and most importantly, the freedom to behave in any way.
Remember, the ones who resolve your karmic debts actually create ones for themselves. Isn't this a favor on you? For example, if someone just comes and slaps you or irritates you... Now, if you remain stable, 'your' old/past karmic account is resolved, however, do you realize that they have just created one for themselves, which they will have to repay soon (as the Kalyug is coming to an end and we all have to go back to the Supreme Abode with zero karmic debts)? They are in fact, doing a huge favor on you.
Do you really have a choice other than ignoring them? You can get angry, infuriated and reactive, but do you really want to do this with such weak people? Do you really want to do this in front of people who lack the amount of understanding that you have? Do you want to dominate the people who do not have Shiv Baba's knowledge and who are less peaceful, less happy, less powerful than you? Not really! So, simply enlarge your heart. Tell yourself, it's okay... My self esteem does not diminish because of them. My confidence and my ability to create and present my talent is not dependent on them. They cannot (and CANNOT) steal my fruits of life or my value.
My self esteem lies in the fact that I am an ancestral soul, who has been instrumental in transforming this world into Golden Age. Who can be greater than Shiv Baba and me in the true sense of the term? They are probably just bragging about very materialistic and perishable things, and I here, despite having the crown of Golden Age, and despite knowing that I am going to be the richest in the world, have my own castle, and 100% peace and happiness very soon, I do not have ego or I do not boast about it. So, who is truly greater? Who has lived on this earth for the maximum period? Even if for now I am seeing unpleasant situations around, this is just 1/4th of the Drama, and they probably exist only during this 1/4th. I have been here for the rest of the peaceful 3/4th part of the Drama too. Whom does all the imperishable dynasty, wealth really belong to? Who is given inheritance of the seven virtues by Shiv Baba? Answer many more such questions to yourself, and you will be fine.
When Shiv Baba says, in any situation, sit in your seat of self esteem, this is exactly what it means. Remember all about your original self and your kingdom, which is actually going to be your future very soon.
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