Sunday, August 8, 2010

The Dark Side of the Light Chasers

Love is inclusive: it accepts the full range of human emotion-the emotions we hide, the emotions we fear. 

Jung once said, "I'd rather be whole than good." 

How many of us have sold ourselves out in order to be good, to be liked, to be accepted? Most of us were raised to believe that people have good qualities and bad qualities. And in order to be accepted we had to get rid of our bad qualities, or at least hide them. 

This way of thinking happens when we begin to individuate, as we distinguish our fingers from the slats of our crib, and distinguish ourselves from our parents. But as we get older we realize an even greater truth that spiritually we are all interconnected. We are all part of each other. 

From this point of view we need to ask whether there really are good parts and bad parts of us. Or are all parts necessary to make a whole? Because how can we know good without knowing bad? How can we know love without knowing hate? How can we know courage without knowing fear?

This holographic model of the universe provides us with a revolutionary view of the connection between the inner and the outer world. According to this theory, every piece of the universe, no matter how we slice it, contains the intelligence of the whole. 

We, as individual beings, are not isolated and random. Each of us is a microcosm that reflects and contains the macrocosm. "If this is true," says consciousness researcher Stanislav Grof, "then we each hold the potential for having direct and immediate experiential access to virtually every aspect of the universe, extending our capacities well beyond the reach of our senses." We all contain the imprint of the entire universe within ourselves. As Deepak Chopra puts it, "We are not in the world, but the world is within us." 

Each of us possess every existing human quality. There is nothing we can see or conceive that we are not, and the purpose of our journey is to restore ourselves to this wholeness. The saintly and the cynical, the divine and the diabolical, the courageous and the cowardly: all these aspects lie dormant in us and will act out if they are not recognized and integrated into our psyches. 

Many of us are frightened of the light as well as the dark. Many of us are frightened to look within ourselves, and fear has us put up walls so thick we no longer remember who we really are.

Sharing light with Debbie Ford, ©1998. Love, Kimmy. Striving to create a path between the present course of events and a new course; leading to new outcomes.

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  1. Love this. Beautifully written. :)

  2. how can we know good without knowing bad? How can we know love without knowing hate? How can we know courage without knowing fear? Love this Kimmy, It is simply said, but profoundly heard to the reader,
    Love and Light
    Janet :)