it depends on the realtionship..the closer you are the more that is revealed
We were really messed up by drugs in the 70's and 80's. How do we look now? Like "burnouts". But we gained something: A strange kind of wisdom and compassion?
Not everyone has found that wisdom and compassion. Some people are still trying to justify their heinous acts towards life and society. They hide behind their expensive cars and homes, and yet everyone knows the knife in the back will come if you turn a blind eye. This type only serves themself.