Saturday, September 6, 2008

Rebuilding Self

Many times I find that my words, actions or behavior tend to upset others inspite of my not wanting to hurt them. I end up alone, trying to figure out where I have gone wrong. I seem to be very happy with the situation, but others don't seem to be. At that time I am not really able to understand the reason for this and I consider the every one else to be unreasonable.

When something goes wrong in any relationship, the first thing I need to do is to keep my mind calm and cool. I need to check myself when others are getting upset with me. I need to make effort to check and change myself constantly so that I am able to move forward. I will be able to appreciate and connect to the uniqueness of that person, thus creating time and space for rebuilding that relationship.

1 comment:

  1. It's a social evolution. Utopia. My Utopian thinking is like this: I wish for something. Perhaps I get many things, good and bad. But I get "something" and, at a certain point, remember the wish. Then, I think "want what you have" rather than "have what you want" (a joke on me). Because I BELIEVE that I keep getting my wishes. But, it's really only an illusion!