Saturday, September 6, 2008
Many times I find that my words, actions or behavior tend to upset others inspite of my not wanting to hurt them. I end up alone, trying to figure out where I have gone wrong. I seem to be very happy with the situation, but others don't seem to be. At that time I am not really able to understand the reason for this and I consider the every one else to be unreasonable.
When something goes wrong in any relationship, the first thing I need to do is to keep my mind calm and cool. I need to check myself when others are getting upset with me. I need to make effort to check and change myself constantly so that I am able to move forward. I will be able to appreciate and connect to the uniqueness of that person, thus creating time and space for rebuilding that relationship.