When someone challenges the truth of what I am saying I generally tend to argue and prove my point in order to prove myself right. When I argue in this way, it only shows my own stubbornness and doesn't help in anyway to reveal the truth. Where silence doesn't help in revealing the truth, argument never will because the other person is not in a position to listen to me at that moment.
I need to realize the fact that when the other person is not able to recognize the truth, my arguing will not help in anyway. When the truth is with us I need not argue but I only need to wait for the right opportunity to tell what I have to say. When I try to tell when the other person is not in a position to listen to me, it only reveals my lack of flexibility.