Friday, May 16, 2008
Change in others when we change
When there is some misunderstanding, we normally want to change
others, trying to bring them to our way of thinking. We usually
can't understand why they are not able to understand our way of
thinking when we seem to be right. We are usually not able to
succeed in this and we end up feeling frustrated.
Instead of trying to force people to change their way of thinking,
which is not going to work any way, we need to concentrate instead
on our own change process. As long as we are working on ourselves
we will be able to be sweet to those around too. Our own change
process inspires others also to work on themselves.